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Alcoholics Anonymous (Big Book) and
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions (12 & 12)
LOVED occurs
18 times
4 in BB • 14 in 12&12
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1.
Lord,
grant that I may
seek rather to
comfort than to be
comforted -- to
understand, than to be
understood -- to
love, than
to be
loved.
2.
3.
That's
one reason we
loved alcohol too
well.
4.
Most of us
must admit that we
have
loved but a
few; that we
have been
quite indifferent to the
many so
long as
none of them
gave us
trouble; and as for the
remainder --
well, we have
really disliked or
hated them.
5.
6.
This
often caused the
people we had
loved most to
push us
aside or
perhaps desert us
entirely.
7.
... loved ones
-- these things terrified and distracted ...
BB
To Wives, p.106
8.
Loved ones,
upon whom we
heartily depended, were
taken from us
by so-
called acts of
God.
9.
10.
... loved personal
triumphs more than we have ...
12&12
Step Ten, p.91
For
no people have
ever loved personal triumphs more than we have
loved them; we
drank of
success as of a
wine which could
never fail to
make us
feel elated.
11.
At
Step Six,
many of us
balked -- for the
practical reason that we did
not
wish to have all our
defects of
character removed,
because we
still loved some of them too
much.
12.
Who of us had not
loved something or
somebody?
13.
How could
men who
loved their
wives and
children be so
unthinking, so
callous, so
cruel?
14.
For
no people have
ever loved personal triumphs more than we have
loved them; we
drank of
success as of a
wine which could
never fail to
make us
feel elated.
15.
We
loved to have
people call us
precocious.
16.
How we
loved to
shout the
damaging fact that
millions of the '
good men of
religion' were
still killing one another off in the
name of
God.
17.
For
alcoholism had been a
lonely business,
even though we had been
surrounded by
people who
loved us.
18.
At these
critical moments, if we
remind ourselves that "it is
better
to
comfort than to be
comforted, to
understand
than to be
understood, to
love than to be
loved," we
will be
following the
intent of
Step Eleven.
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