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1.
... wives and children be so unthinking, so ...    BB p.107,  To Wives   Go to page 107 in the Big Book
How could men who loved their wives and children be so unthinking, so callous, so cruel?


2.
... wives and children of such men suffer ...    BB p.114,  To Wives   Go to page 114 in the Big Book
The wives and children of such men suffer horribly, but not more than the men themselves.


3.
... wives and families, but the man who ...    BB p.127,  The Family Afterward   Go to page 127 in the Big Book
We know there are difficult wives and families, but the man who is getting over alcoholism must remember he did much to make them so.


4.
... wives and parents -- anyone can increase the ...    BB p.18,  There Is A Solution   Go to page 18 in the Big Book
It brings misunderstanding, fierce resentment, financial insecurity, disgusted friends and employers, warped lives of blameless children, sad wives and parents -- anyone can increase the list.


5.
... wives and relatives, innumerable trips to police ...    BB p.97,  Working With Others   Go to page 97 in the Big Book
It may mean sharing your money and your home, counseling frantic wives and relatives, innumerable trips to police courts, sanitariums, hospitals, jails and asylums.

6.
... wives, arranged hospitalization and got sponsorship for ...    12&12 p.168,  Tradition Eight
Then we saw that if a hardworking secretary answered the phone dozens of times a day, listened to twenty wailing wives, arranged hospitalization and got sponsorship for ten newcomers, and was gently diplomatic with the irate drunk who complained about the job she was doing and how she was overpaid, then such a person could surely not be called a professional A.A.


7.
... wives found that, like everybody else, we ...    BB p.116,  To Wives   Go to page 116 in the Big Book
We wives found that, like everybody else, we were afflicted with pride, self-pity, vanity and all the things which go to make up the self-centered person; and we were not above selfishness or dishonesty.


8.
... wives have had with alcoholics.    BB p.82,  Into Action   Go to page 82 in the Big Book
Passing all understanding is the patience mothers and wives have had with alcoholics.


9.
... wives have sometimes been obliged to separate ...    BB p.125,  The Family Afterward   Go to page 125 in the Big Book
Husbands and wives have sometimes been obliged to separate for a time until new perspective, new victory over hurt pride could be rewon.


10.
... wives, husbands and friends of A.A. members.    BB p.573(575),  Appendix VI, How to Get in Touch With A.A.   Display entire Appendix VI
This is a world clearing house for the Al-Anon Family Groups, composed largely of the wives, husbands and friends of A.A. members.

11.
... wives, husbands, even the world itself -- into ...    12&12 p.115,  Step Twelve
We had failed to see that though adult in years we were still behaving childishly, trying to turn everybody -- friends, wives, husbands, even the world itself -- into protective parents.


12.
... wives) indicate the problems such people may ...    BB p.121,  To Wives (Note)   Go to page 121 in the Big Book
The foregoing pages (though addressed only to wives) indicate the problems such people may face.


13.
... wives of Alcoholics Anonymous to address the ...    BB p.104,  To Wives   Go to page 104 in the Big Book
We want the wives of Alcoholics Anonymous to address the wives of men who drink too much.


14.
... wives of Alcoholics Anonymous, we would like ...    BB p.104,  To Wives   Go to page 104 in the Big Book
As wives of Alcoholics Anonymous, we would like you to feel that we understand as perhaps few can.


15.
... wives of his new alcoholic friends.    BB p.119,  To Wives   Go to page 119 in the Big Book
We suggest that you direct some of your thought to the wives of his new alcoholic friends.


16.
... wives of men who drink too much.    BB p.104,  To Wives   Go to page 104 in the Big Book
We want the wives of Alcoholics Anonymous to address the wives of men who drink too much.


17.
... wives or friends to join us in ...    BB p.87,  Into Action   Go to page 87 in the Big Book
If circumstances warrant, we ask our wives or friends to join us in morning meditation.


18.
... wives or our parents which will hurt ...    BB p.74,  Into Action   Go to page 74 in the Big Book
It may be one of our own family, but we cannot disclose anything to our wives or our parents which will hurt them and make them unhappy.


19.
... wives, parents and intimate friends usually find ...    BB p.18,  There Is A Solution   Go to page 18 in the Big Book
Strangely enough, wives, parents and intimate friends usually find us even more unapproachable than do the psychiatrist and the doctor.


20.
... wives, relatives and friends whose problem has ...    BB p.104,  To Wives   Go to page 104 in the Big Book
Among us are wives, relatives and friends whose problem has been solved, as well as some who have not yet found a happy solution.


21.
... wives, relatives, friends and others close to ...    BB p.121,  To Wives (Note)   Go to page 121 in the Big Book
Though it is entirely separate from Alcoholics Anonymous, it uses the general principles of the A.A. program as a guide for husbands, wives, relatives, friends and others close to alcoholics.


22.
... wives, the little children; let the solving ...    BB xxviii(xxvi),  The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
If any feel that as psychiatrists directing a hospital for alcoholics we appear somewhat sentimental, let them stand with us a while on the firing line, see the tragedies, the despairing wives, the little children; let the solving of these problems become a part of their daily work, and even of their sleeping moments, and the most cynical will not wonder that we have accepted and encouraged this movement.

23.
... wives they crowded into our downstairs parlor.    12&12 p.137,  Tradition Two
With their wives they crowded into our downstairs parlor.

24.
... wives to brew gallons of coffee.    12&12 p.133,  Tradition Two
The founder and his friends channel spirituality to newcomers, hire halls, make hospital arrangements, and entreat their wives to brew gallons of coffee.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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