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From the books  ...  Alcoholics Anonymous (Big Book) and Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions (12 & 12)


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1.
View THERE IS A SOLUTION chapter   ... hurt.   BB There Is A Solution, p.18  
If a person has cancer all are sorry for him and no one is angry or hurt.


2.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... hurt.   BB How It Works, p.62  
Sometimes they hurt us, seemingly without provocation, but we invariably find that at some time in the past we have made decisions based on self which later placed us in a position to be hurt.


3.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... hurt?   BB How It Works, p.69  
Whom had we hurt?


4.
View A VISION FOR YOU chapter   ... hurt.   BB A Vision For You, p.156  
Stepping into his car, he made the rounds of people he had hurt.


5.
View STEP EIGHT essay   ... hurt.   12&12 Step Eight, p.78  
We got a pretty severe shock when we realized that we were preparing to make a face-to-face admission of our wretched conduct to those we had hurt.


6.
View STEP EIGHT essay   ... hurt.   12&12 Step Eight, p.79  
There were cases, too, where we had damaged others who were still happily unaware of being hurt.


7.
View STEP TEN essay   ... hurt.   12&12 Step Ten, p.92  
Of course, people turned away from us, bored or hurt.


8.
View THE FAMILY AFTERWARD chapter   ... hurt a great deal.   BB The Family Afterward, pp.124-125  
A few of us have had these growing pains and they hurt a great deal.


9.
View STEP TWELVE essay   ... hurt and confused when the advice is ...   12&12 Step Twelve, p.111  
Then we are hurt and confused when the advice is rejected, or when it is accepted and brings still greater confusion.


10.
View TRADITION TWO essay   ... hurt and depressed.   12&12 Tradition Two, p.134  
The founder and his friends are hurt and depressed.


11.
View STEP TWELVE essay   ... hurt and disappointed.   12&12 Step Twelve, p.115  
But when they finally resisted or ran away, we were bitterly hurt and disappointed.


12.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... hurt, and how badly?   12&12 Step Four, p.50  
What people were hurt, and how badly?


13.
View STEP EIGHT essay   ... hurt, and in what ways.   12&12 Step Eight, p.77  
To a degree, he has already done this when taking moral inventory, but now the time has come when he ought to redouble his efforts to see how many people he has hurt, and in what ways.


14.
View STEP TWELVE essay   ... hurt, and left out as they witness ...   12&12 Step Twelve, p.120  
At first many of these feel lonely, hurt, and left out as they witness so much domestic happiness about them.


15.
View STEP EIGHT essay   ... hurt anybody but ourselves.   12&12 Step Eight, p.79  
We clung to the claim that when drinking we never hurt anybody but ourselves.


16.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... hurt by our conduct, and are willing ...   BB How It Works, p.70  
We have listed the people we have hurt by our conduct, and are willing to straighten out the past if we can.


17.
View STEP TEN essay   ... hurt by people who, like us, are ...   12&12 Step Ten, p.92  
It will become more and more evident as we go forward that it is pointless to become angry, or to get hurt by people who, like us, are suffering from the pains of growing up.


18.
View STEP FOUR essay   ... hurt feelings, a sense of persecution, and ...   12&12 Step Four, p.53  
Then we develop hurt feelings, a sense of persecution, and a desire to retaliate.


19.
View TO WIVES chapter   ... hurt feelings and resentments.   BB To Wives, p.117  
Some of the snags you will encounter are irritation, hurt feelings and resentments.


20.
View TO WIVES chapter   ... hurt feelings is a wonderful thing.   BB To Wives, p.116  
When we do that, we find it solves our problems too; the ensuing lack of fear, worry and hurt feelings is a wonderful thing.


21.
View STEP FIVE essay   ... hurt feelings, it was probable we couldn't ...   12&12 Step Five, p.59  
Because we were still bothered by fear, self-pity, and hurt feelings, it was probable we couldn't appraise ourselves fairly at all.


22.
View TO EMPLOYERS chapter   ... hurt him a bit, even though he ...   BB To Employers, p.144  
That won't hurt him a bit, even though he does not go for this remedy.


23.
View MORE ABOUT ALCOHOLISM chapter   ... hurt me on a full stomach.   BB More About Alcoholism, p.36  
"Suddenly the thought crossed my mind that if I were to put an ounce of whiskey in my milk it couldn't hurt me on a full stomach.


24.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... hurt or threatened.   BB How It Works, pp.64-65  
In most cases it was found that our self-esteem, our pocketbooks, our ambitions, our personal relationships (including sex) were hurt or threatened.


25.
View BILL'S STORY chapter   ... hurt or toward whom I felt resentment.   BB Bill's Story, p.13  
We made a list of people I had hurt or toward whom I felt resentment.


26.
View THE FAMILY AFTERWARD chapter   ... hurt pride could be rewon.   BB The Family Afterward, p.125  
Husbands and wives have sometimes been obliged to separate for a time until new perspective, new victory over hurt pride could be rewon.


27.
View STEP TEN essay   ... hurt pride -- did the same thing.   12&12 Step Ten, p.90  
Other kinds of disturbances -- jealousy, envy, self-pity, or hurt pride -- did the same thing.


28.
View TO WIVES chapter   ... hurt pride, frustration, self-pity, misunderstanding and fear.   BB To Wives, p.104  
We have had long rendezvous with hurt pride, frustration, self-pity, misunderstanding and fear.


29.
View STEP FIVE essay   ... hurt pride might be the smoke screen ...   12&12 Step Five, p.59  
Or anger and hurt pride might be the smoke screen under which we were hiding some of our defects while we blamed others for them.


30.
View WORKING WITH OTHERS chapter   ... hurt some more.   BB Working With Others, p.95  
This he may do after he gets hurt some more.


31.
View INTO ACTION chapter   ... hurt them and make them unhappy.   BB Into Action, p.74  
It may be one of our own family, but we cannot disclose anything to our wives or our parents which will hurt them and make them unhappy.


32.
View STEP TEN essay   ... hurt those we love because they need ...   12&12 Step Ten, p.94  
We sometimes hurt those we love because they need to be "taught a lesson," when we really want to punish.


33.
View STEP FIVE essay   ... hurt us and others, then the need ...   12&12 Step Five, p.55  
If we have swept the searchlight of Step Four back and forth over our careers, and it has revealed in stark relief those experiences we'd rather not remember, if we have come to know how wrong thinking and action have hurt us and others, then the need to quit living by ourselves with those tormenting ghosts of yesterday gets more urgent than ever.


34.
View HOW IT WORKS chapter   ... hurt us, seemingly without provocation, but we ...   BB How It Works, p.62  
Sometimes they hurt us, seemingly without provocation, but we invariably find that at some time in the past we have made decisions based on self which later placed us in a position to be hurt.


35.
View INTO ACTION chapter   ... hurt, we may feel diffident about going ...   BB Into Action, p.76  
As we look over the list of business acquaintances and friends we have hurt, we may feel diffident about going to some of them on a spiritual basis.


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