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1.
... Step?    12&12 p.23,  Step One
Since Step One requires an admission that our lives have become unmanageable, how could people such as these take this Step?

2.
... Step.    12&12 p.33,  Step Two
Whether agnostic, atheist, or former believer, we can stand together on this Step.

3.
... Step.    12&12 p.56,  Step Five
Even A.A. oldtimers, sober for years, often pay dearly for skimping this Step.

4.
... step.    12&12 p.98,  Step Eleven
Yet it is only a step.

5.
... Step?    12&12 p.109,  Step Twelve
Now, what about the rest of the Twelfth Step?

6.
... Step.    12&12 p.125,  Step Twelve
Understanding is the key to right principles and attitudes, and right action is the key to good living; therefore the joy of good living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth Step.

7.
... Step."    12&12 p.170,  Tradition Eight
Members who select such full-time careers do not professionalize A.A.'s Twelfth Step."


8.
... step.    BB p.74,  Into Action   Go to page 74 in the Big Book
Rightly and naturally, we think well before we choose the person or persons with whom to take this intimate and confidential step.

9.
... Step also says that as a result ...    12&12 p.106,  Step Twelve
Our Twelfth Step also says that as a result of practicing all the Steps, we have each found something called a spiritual awakening.

10.
... Step, and action is its key word.    12&12 p.106,  Step Twelve
The joy of living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth Step, and action is its key word.

11.
... Step and that part of the Twelfth ...    12&12 p.113,  Step Twelve
Maybe we are doing fine on only two of them, the First Step and that part of the Twelfth where we "carry the message."


12.
... step ashore.    BB p.53,  We Agnostics   Go to page 53 in the Big Book
But somehow, we couldn't quite step ashore.

13.
... step at first.    12&12 p.73,  Step Seven
Rebellion dogs our every step at first.


14.
... step away from a highly strained, abnormal ...    BB p.122,  The Family Afterward   Go to page 122 in the Big Book
Cessation of drinking is but the first step away from a highly strained, abnormal condition.

15.
... step back and think.    12&12 p.91,  Step Ten
When we are tempted by the bait, we should train ourselves to step back and think.

16.
... Step cases, they had a terrific aversion ...    12&12 p.160,  Tradition Seven
It was soon apparent that while alcoholics would spend lavishly on Twelfth Step cases, they had a terrific aversion to dropping money into a meeting-place hat for group purposes.

17.
... Step couldn't be sold for money, we ...    12&12 p.167,  Tradition Eight
When we had agreed that the Twelfth Step couldn't be sold for money, we had been wise.

18.
... Step Eight, we continued our housecleaning, for ...    12&12 p.108,  Step Twelve
In Step Eight, we continued our housecleaning, for we saw that we were not only in conflict with ourselves, but also with people and situations in the world in which we lived.

19.
... Step Eleven.    12&12 p.103,  Step Eleven
At these critical moments, if we remind ourselves that "it is better to comfort than to be comforted, to understand than to be understood, to love than to be loved," we will be following the intent of Step Eleven.


20.
Step Eleven suggests prayer and meditation.    BB p.85,  Into Action   Go to page 85 in the Big Book
Step Eleven suggests prayer and meditation.

21.
... Step Eleven we saw that if a ...    12&12 p.108,  Step Twelve
In Step Eleven we saw that if a Higher Power had restored us to sanity and had enabled us to live with some peace of mind in a sorely troubled world, then such a Higher Power was worth knowing better, by as direct contact as possible.

22.
... Step Eleven which says: "...knowledge of His ...    12&12 p.102,  Step Eleven
And we think that the whole range of our needs is well defined by that part of Step Eleven which says: "...knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out."

23.
... Step experiences where we will seem to ...    12&12 p.110,  Step Twelve
We may often pass through Twelfth Step experiences where we will seem to be temporarily off the beam.

24.
... Step Five.    12&12 p.55,  Step Five
So intense, though, is our fear and reluctance to do this, that many A.A.'s at first try to bypass Step Five.

25.
... Step Five.    12&12 p.56,  Step Five
Few muddled attitudes have caused us more trouble than holding back on Step Five.

26.
... Step Five?    12&12 p.57,  Step Five
What are we likely to receive from Step Five?

27.
... Step Five.    12&12 p.58,  Step Five
More realism and therefore more honesty about ourselves are the great gains we make under the influence of Step Five.

28.
... Step Five that he first actually felt ...    12&12 p.62,  Step Five
Many an A.A., once agnostic or atheistic, tells us that it was during this stage of Step Five that he first actually felt the presence of God.

29.
... Step Five that we inwardly knew we'd ...    12&12 p.58,  Step Five
Our moral inventory had persuaded us that all-round forgiveness was desirable, but it was only when we resolutely tackled Step Five that we inwardly knew we'd be able to receive forgiveness and give it, too.

30.
Step Five was the answer.    12&12 p.57,  Step Five
Step Five was the answer.

31.
... Step Five, we decided that an inventory, ...    12&12 p.108,  Step Twelve
Looking at Step Five, we decided that an inventory, taken alone, wouldn't be enough.

32.
... Step for a fee.    12&12 p.166,  Tradition Eight
This has always been so obvious that only a very few A.A.'s have ever worked the Twelfth Step for a fee.

33.
... Step Four.    12&12 p.46,  Step Four
They can do this, for they are the carriers of A.A.'s tested experience with Step Four.

34.
... Step Four.    12&12 p.50,  Step Four
These are the first fruits of Step Four.


35.
... Step Four.    BB p.64,  How It Works   Go to page 64 in the Big Book
This was Step Four.

36.
... Step Four back and forth over our ...    12&12 p.55,  Step Five
If we have swept the searchlight of Step Four back and forth over our careers, and it has revealed in stark relief those experiences we'd rather not remember, if we have come to know how wrong thinking and action have hurt us and others, then the need to quit living by ourselves with those tormenting ghosts of yesterday gets more urgent than ever.

37.
... Step Four is but the beginning of ...    12&12 p.50,  Step Four
Since Step Four is but the beginning of a lifetime practice, it can be suggested that he first have a look at those personal flaws which are acutely troublesome and fairly obvious.

38.
Step Four is our vigorous and painstaking ...    12&12 p.42,  Step Four
Step Four is our vigorous and painstaking effort to discover what these liabilities in each of us have been, and are.

39.
... Step Four was, after all, only a ...    12&12 p.58,  Step Five
The objective look at ourselves we achieved in Step Four was, after all, only a look.

40.
... Step Four, we commenced to search out ...    12&12 p.107,  Step Twelve
Beginning with Step Four, we commenced to search out the things in ourselves which had brought us to physical, moral, and spiritual bankruptcy.

41.
... Step has meant to others.    12&12 p.82,  Step Eight
Whenever our pencil falters, we can fortify and cheer ourselves by remembering what A.A. experience in this Step has meant to others.

42.
... Step houses.    12&12 p.157,  Tradition Six
Even inside A.A. we found it imperative to remove the A.A. name from clubs and Twelfth Step houses.

43.
... step" illusion.    12&12 p.113,  Step Twelve
The best-intentioned of us can fall for the "two-step" illusion.


44.
... step in recovery.    BB p.30,  More About Alcoholism   Go to page 30 in the Big Book
This is the first step in recovery.

45.
... step in the development of that kind ...    12&12 p.98,  Step Eleven
It is a step in the development of that kind of humility that makes it possible for us to receive God's help.

46.
... step in the formation of Tradition Three.    12&12 p.142,  Tradition Three
A.A. had taken its first step in the formation of Tradition Three.


47.
... Step in the program of recovery mentioned ...    BB p.72,  Into Action   Go to page 72 in the Big Book
This brings us to the Fifth Step in the program of recovery mentioned in the preceding chapter.

48.
... step into them and walk with new ...    12&12 p.48,  Step Four
Having found the shoes that fit, he ought to step into them and walk with new confidence that he is at last on the right track.


49.
... step is indicated we must not shrink.    BB p.80,  Into Action   Go to page 80 in the Big Book
If we have obtained permission, have consulted with others, asked God to help and the drastic step is indicated we must not shrink.

50.
... Step is more necessary to longtime sobriety ...    12&12 p.55,  Step Five
But scarcely any Step is more necessary to longtime sobriety and peace of mind than this one.

51.
... Step is never to be paid for, ...    12&12 p.171,  Tradition Eight
Our Twelfth Step is never to be paid for, but those who labor in service for us are worthy of their hire.

52.
... Step is seen in its full implication, ...    12&12 p.106,  Step Twelve
When the Twelfth Step is seen in its full implication, it is really talking about the kind of love that has no price tag on it.


53.
... step is to be, that we be ...    BB p.87,  Into Action   Go to page 87 in the Big Book
We usually conclude the period of meditation with a prayer that we be shown all through the day what our next step is to be, that we be given whatever we need to take care of such problems.

54.
... Step is where we make the change ...    12&12 p.76,  Step Seven
The Seventh Step is where we make the change in our attitude which permits us, with humility as our guide, to move out from ourselves toward others and toward God.


55.
... step, it could have little permanent effect ...    BB p.64,  How It Works   Go to page 64 in the Big Book
Though our decision was a vital and crucial step, it could have little permanent effect unless at once followed by a strenuous effort to face, and to be rid of, the things in ourselves which had been blocking us.

56.
... Step job at a hospital in New ...    12&12 p.136,  Tradition Two
"One day I was doing a Twelfth Step job at a hospital in New York.

57.
... Step job, no matter how unpromising.    12&12 p.144,  Tradition Three
In those days, we'd go anywhere on a Twelfth Step job, no matter how unpromising.

58.
... Step job well done.    12&12 p.110,  Step Twelve
Practically every A.A. member declares that no satisfaction has been deeper and no joy greater than in a Twelfth Step job well done.

59.
... Step jobs at all, the critics attacked ...    12&12 p.167,  Tradition Eight
Ignoring the fact that these labors were not Twelfth Step jobs at all, the critics attacked as A.A. professionals these workers of ours who were often doing thankless tasks that no one else could or would do.

60.
... Step looks hard, even impossible.    12&12 p.35,  Step Three
To every worldly and practical-minded beginner, this Step looks hard, even impossible.


61.
... step making sure we were ready; that ...    BB p.63,  How It Works   Go to page 63 in the Big Book
We thought well before taking this step making sure we were ready; that we could at last abandon ourselves utterly to Him.


62.
... step may be postponed, only, however, if ...    BB p.74,  Into Action   Go to page 74 in the Big Book
If that is so, this step may be postponed, only, however, if we hold ourselves in complete readiness to go through with it at the first opportunity.

63.
... Step Nine.    12&12 p.83,  Step Nine
Good judgment, a careful sense of timing, courage, and prudence -- these are the qualities we shall need when we take Step Nine.

64.
... Step Nine.    12&12 p.87,  Step Nine
For the readiness to take the full consequences of our past acts, and to take responsibility for the well-being of others at the same time, is the very spirit of Step Nine.

65.
... Step Nine by making direct amends to ...    12&12 p.108,  Step Twelve
We followed this up in Step Nine by making direct amends to those concerned, except when it would injure them or other people.


66.
... step of which is a personal housecleaning, ...    BB p.63,  How It Works   Go to page 63 in the Big Book
Next we launched out on a course of vigorous action, the first step of which is a personal housecleaning, which many of us had never attempted.

67.
... Step on problems other than alcohol, we ...    12&12 p.68,  Step Six
If we would gain any real advantage in the use of this Step on problems other than alcohol, we shall need to make a brand new venture into open-mindedness.


68.
... step on the toes of our fellows ...    BB p.62,  How It Works   Go to page 62 in the Big Book
Driven by a hundred forms of fear, self-delusion, self-seeking, and self-pity, we step on the toes of our fellows and they retaliate.

69.
... Step One requires an admission that our ...    12&12 p.23,  Step One
Since Step One requires an admission that our lives have become unmanageable, how could people such as these take this Step?

70.
Step One showed us an amazing paradox: ...    12&12 p.107,  Step Twelve
Step One showed us an amazing paradox: We found that we were totally unable to be rid of the alcohol obsession until we first admitted that we were powerless over it.

71.
... Step One, where we made the 100 ...    12&12 p.68,  Step Six
Only Step One, where we made the 100 percent admission we were powerless over alcohol, can be practiced with absolute perfection.

72.
... step out into the sun.    12&12 p.98,  Step Eleven
Meditation is our step out into the sun.


73.
Step over to the nearest barroom and ...    BB p.31,  More About Alcoholism   Go to page 31 in the Big Book
Step over to the nearest barroom and try some controlled drinking.


74.
... Step Seven.    BB p.76,  Into Action   Go to page 76 in the Big Book
We have then completed Step Seven.

75.
... Step Seven: "Humbly asked Him to remove ...    12&12 p.75,  Step Seven
It marked the time when we could commence to see the full implication of Step Seven: "Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings."

76.
... Step Seven is on humility.    12&12 p.76,  Step Seven
The whole emphasis of Step Seven is on humility.

77.
... Step Seven, it might be well if ...    12&12 p.76,  Step Seven
As we approach the actual taking of Step Seven, it might be well if we A.A.'s inquire once more just what our deeper objectives are.

78.
... Step Seven, we humbly asked God to ...    12&12 p.108,  Step Twelve
Then, in Step Seven, we humbly asked God to remove our shortcomings such as He could or would under the conditions of the day we asked.

79.
... Step; she was just making it possible.    12&12 p.168,  Tradition Eight
She was not professionalizing the Twelfth Step; she was just making it possible.

80.
... Step Six?    12&12 p.68,  Step Six
Many will at once ask, "How can we accept the entire implication of Step Six?

81.
... Step Six.    12&12 p.108,  Step Twelve
Yet we knew we had to make a settlement with the fundamental principle of Step Six.


82.
... Step Six.    BB p.76,  Into Action   Go to page 76 in the Big Book
If we can answer to our satisfaction, we then look at Step Six.

83.
... Step Six is still difficult, but not ...    12&12 p.68,  Step Six
Seen in this light, Step Six is still difficult, but not at all impossible.

84.
... Step Six, many of us balked -- for ...    12&12 p.108,  Step Twelve
At Step Six, many of us balked -- for the practical reason that we did not wish to have all our defects of character removed, because we still loved some of them too much.

85.
... Step Six on all his faults -- without ...    12&12 p.63,  Step Six
He goes on to explain that any person capable of enough willingness and honesty to try repeatedly Step Six on all his faults -- without any reservations whatever -- has indeed come a long way spiritually, and is therefore entitled to be called a man who is sincerely trying to grow in the image and likeness of his own Creator.

86.
... Step Six -- "Were entirely ready to have ...    12&12 p.65,  Step Six
So Step Six -- "Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character" -- is A.A.'s way of stating the best possible attitude one can take in order to make a beginning on this lifetime job.

87.
... Step so specifically concerns itself with humility, ...    12&12 p.70,  Step Seven
Since this Step so specifically concerns itself with humility, we should pause here to consider what humility is and what the practice of it can mean to us.


88.
... step, submit to anything to get well, ...    BB p.142,  To Employers   Go to page 142 in the Big Book
Will he take every necessary step, submit to anything to get well, to stop drinking forever?

89.
... Step Ten we commence to put our ...    12&12 p.88,  Step Ten
But when we approach Step Ten we commence to put our A.A. way of living to practical use, day by day, in fair weather or foul.

90.
... Step Ten, we had begun to get ...    12&12 p.108,  Step Twelve
By this time, at Step Ten, we had begun to get a basis for daily living, and we keenly realized that we would need to continue taking personal inventory, and that when we were in the wrong we ought to admit it promptly.


91.
... Step Ten, which suggests we continue to ...    BB p.84,  Into Action   Go to page 84 in the Big Book
This thought brings us to Step Ten, which suggests we continue to take personal inventory and continue to set right any new mistakes as we go along.

92.
... Step that separates the men from the ...    12&12 p.63,  Step Six
"This is the Step that separates the men from the boys."

93.
... Step, the result has been exactly the ...    12&12 p.166,  Tradition Eight
Every time we have tried to professionalize our Twelfth Step, the result has been exactly the same: Our single purpose has been defeated.

94.
... Step Three.    12&12 p.35,  Step Three
Every man and woman who has joined A.A. and intends to stick has, without realizing it, made a beginning on Step Three.

95.
... Step Three.    12&12 p.41,  Step Three
Once we have come into agreement with these ideas, it is really easy to begin the practice of Step Three.


96.
... Step Three.    BB p.63,  How It Works   Go to page 63 in the Big Book
We were now at Step Three.

97.
... Step Three calls for affirmative action, for ...    12&12 p.34,  Step Three
Like all the remaining Steps, Step Three calls for affirmative action, for it is only by action that we can cut away the self-will which has always blocked the entry of God -- or, if you like, a Higher Power -- into our lives.

98.
... Step Three is given a determined and ...    12&12 p.40,  Step Three
Then it is explained that other Steps of the A.A. program can be practiced with success only when Step Three is given a determined and persistent trial.

99.
... Step Three is like the opening of ...    12&12 p.34,  Step Three
Practicing Step Three is like the opening of a door which to all appearances is still closed and locked.

100.
... Step Three opens the door.    12&12 p.40,  Step Three
To make this increasingly possible is the purpose of A.A.'s Twelve Steps, and Step Three opens the door.

101.
Step Three represents our first attempt to ...    12&12 p.34,  Step Three
Step Three represents our first attempt to do this.

102.
... Step Three we turned our will and ...    12&12 p.107,  Step Twelve
Consequently, in Step Three we turned our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.


103.
... Step Three, which is that we decided ...    BB p.60,  How It Works   Go to page 60 in the Big Book
Being convinced, we were at Step Three, which is that we decided to turn our will and our life over to God as we understood Him.

104.
... step toward liberation from its paralyzing grip.    12&12 p.73,  Step Seven
Every newcomer in Alcoholics Anonymous is told, and soon realizes for himself, that his humble admission of powerlessness over alcohol is his first step toward liberation from its paralyzing grip.

105.
... Step Twelve.    12&12 p.110,  Step Twelve
"Freely ye have received; freely give..." is the core of this part of Step Twelve.


106.
... Step Twelve.    BB p.88,  Into Action   Go to page 88 in the Big Book
The next chapter is entirely devoted to Step Twelve.

107.
... Step Two gently and very gradually began ...    12&12 p.27,  Step Two
Right there, Step Two gently and very gradually began to infiltrate my life.

108.
... Step Two is the rallying point for ...    12&12 p.33,  Step Two
Therefore, Step Two is the rallying point for all of us.

109.
... Step Two, most A.A. newcomers are confronted ...    12&12 p.25,  Step Two
The moment they read Step Two, most A.A. newcomers are confronted with a dilemma, sometimes a serious one.

110.
... Step Two right now.    12&12 p.26,  Step Two
Second, to get sober and to stay sober, you don't have to swallow all of Step Two right now.

111.
... Step Two we saw that since we ...    12&12 p.107,  Step Twelve
In Step Two we saw that since we could not restore ourselves to sanity, some Higher Power must necessarily do so if we were to survive.

112.
... Step was also the means by which ...    12&12 p.57,  Step Five
This vital Step was also the means by which we began to get the feeling that we could be forgiven, no matter what we had thought or done.


113.
... step, we may not overcome drinking.    BB p.72,  Into Action   Go to page 72 in the Big Book
The best reason first: If we skip this vital step, we may not overcome drinking.


114.
... step with an understanding person, such as ...    BB p.63,  How It Works   Go to page 63 in the Big Book
We found it very desirable to take this spiritual step with an understanding person, such as our wife, best friend, or spiritual adviser.

115.
... Step with our sponsors or spiritual advisers ...    12&12 p.58,  Step Five
Often it was while working on this Step with our sponsors or spiritual advisers that we first felt truly able to forgive others, no matter how deeply we felt they had wronged us.


116.
... step, withholding nothing, we are delighted.    BB p.75,  Into Action   Go to page 75 in the Big Book
Once we have taken this step, withholding nothing, we are delighted.

117.
... Step work.    12&12 p.110,  Step Twelve
Nor is this the only kind of Twelfth Step work.

118.
... Step work.    12&12 p.110,  Step Twelve
Whether our audience is one or many, it is still Twelfth Step work.

119.
... Step work.    12&12 p.110,  Step Twelve
There are many opportunities even for those of us who feel unable to speak at meetings or who are so situated that we cannot do much face-to-face Twelfth Step work.

120.
... Step work.    12&12 p.142,  Tradition Three
Overjoyed, the newcomer plunged into Twelfth Step work.

121.
... Step work.    12&12 p.151,  Tradition Five
"Restless one day, I felt I'd better do some Twelfth Step work.

122.
... Step work.    12&12 p.170,  Tradition Eight
Yet not a single one of them had been hired to do A.A.'s Twelfth Step work.

123.
... Step work; and then he lowered the ...    12&12 p.143,  Tradition Three
He paid a fine tribute to the Fellowship; he told how his family had been reunited; he extolled the virtue of honesty; he recalled the joys of Twelfth Step work; and then he lowered the boom.

124.
... Step work forms a group, another discovery ...    12&12 p.130,  Tradition One
The moment this Twelfth Step work forms a group, another discovery is made -- that most individuals cannot recover unless there is a group.

125.
... Step work in the very best sense ...    12&12 p.110,  Step Twelve
This is Twelfth Step work in the very best sense of the word.

126.
... Step work is my business.    12&12 p.173,  Tradition Nine
Committees have instructed many an A.A. to stop working on a chronic backslider, only to be told: "How I do my Twelfth Step work is my business.

127.
... Step work is never to be paid ...    12&12 p.191,  Tradition Eight (Long)
But our usual A.A. Twelfth Step work is never to be paid for.


128.
... Step" work is never to be paid ...    BB p.565(567),  Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
But our usual A.A. "12 Step" work is never to be paid for.

129.
... Step work; it was to make Twelfth ...    12&12 p.168,  Tradition Eight
The job was not to do Twelfth Step work; it was to make Twelfth Step work possible.

130.
... Step work possible.    12&12 p.168,  Tradition Eight
The job was not to do Twelfth Step work; it was to make Twelfth Step work possible.

131.
... Step work possible, perhaps arranging for the ...    12&12 p.110,  Step Twelve
We can be the ones who take on the unspectacular but important tasks that make good Twelfth Step work possible, perhaps arranging for the coffee and cake after the meetings, where so many skeptical, suspicious newcomers have found confidence and comfort in the laughter and talk.

132.
... Step work we sometimes carry the message ...    12&12 p.111,  Step Twelve
By a great deal of ardent Twelfth Step work we sometimes carry the message to so many alcoholics that they place us in a position of trust.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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