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1.
... going.   BB p.15, Bill's Story   Go to page 15 in the Big Book
It is a design for living that works in rough going.

2.
... going back in our own drinking histories, ...   12&12 p.23, Step One
By going back in our own drinking histories, we could show that years before we realized it we were out of control, that our drinking even then was no mere habit, that it was indeed the beginning of a fatal progression.


3.
... going beautifully he dismays you by coming ...   BB p.120, To Wives   Go to page 120 in the Big Book
Perhaps your husband will make a fair start on the new basis, but just as things are going beautifully he dismays you by coming home drunk.

4.
... going human concerns is complete.   12&12 p.21, Step One
Once this stark fact is accepted, our bankruptcy as going human concerns is complete.


5.
... going into a detailed discussion, it may ...   BB p.20, There Is A Solution   Go to page 20 in the Big Book
Before going into a detailed discussion, it may be well to summarize some points as we see them.


6.
... going is thoroughly good.   BB p.102, Working With Others   Go to page 102 in the Big Book
But be sure you are on solid spiritual ground before you start and that your motive in going is thoroughly good.

7.
Going it alone in spiritual matters is ...   12&12 p.60, Step Five
Going it alone in spiritual matters is dangerous.

8.
... going much too far in the opposite ...   12&12 p.121, Step Twelve
Upon entering A.A., these attitudes were sharply reversed, often going much too far in the opposite direction.


9.
... going of life.   BB p.51, We Agnostics   Go to page 50 in the Big Book
Once confused and baffled by the seeming futility of existence, they show the underlying reasons why they were making heavy going of life.


10.
... going on.   BB xx, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
Alcohol being no respecter of persons, we are an accurate cross section of America, and in distant lands, the same democratic evening-up process is now going on.


11.
... "going on the wagon for keeps."   BB xxx(xxviii), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
They are always "going on the wagon for keeps."

12.
... going out of our way to understand ...   12&12 p.93, Step Ten
With those we dislike we can begin to practice justice and courtesy, perhaps going out of our way to understand and help them.

13.
... going somewhere, that life is not a ...   12&12 p.107, Step Twelve
He has been set on a path which tells him he is really going somewhere, that life is not a dead end, not something to be endured or mastered.


14.
... going there is little doubt that much ...   BB p.19, There Is A Solution   Go to page 19 in the Big Book
If we keep on the way we are going there is little doubt that much good will result, but the surface of the problem would hardly be scratched.

15.
... going to back away from their individual ...   12&12 p.177, Tradition Ten
Nor does it mean that the members of Alcoholics Anonymous, now restored as citizens of the world, are going to back away from their individual responsibilities to act as they see the right upon issues of our time.

16.
... going to be happy again.   12&12 p.119, Step Twelve
Both of them blame each other and ask when their marriage is ever going to be happy again.


17.
... going to be inspired at all times.   BB p.87, Into Action   Go to page 87 in the Big Book
Being still inexperienced and having just made conscious contact with God, it is not probable that we are going to be inspired at all times.


18.
... going to be more interested in a ...   BB p.77, Into Action   Go to page 77 in the Big Book
He is going to be more interested in a demonstration of good will than in our talk of spiritual discoveries.


19.
... going to be our Director.   BB p.62, How It Works   Go to page 62 in the Big Book
Next, we decided that hereafter in this drama of life, God was going to be our Director.

20.
... going to be so rigidly righteous about ...   12&12 p.86, Step Nine
Are we going to be so rigidly righteous about making amends that we don't care what happens to the family and home?


21.
... going to be that way with you.   BB p.44, We Agnostics   Go to page 44 in the Big Book
Perhaps it is going to be that way with you.


22.
... going to be very happy.   BB p.117, To Wives   Go to page 117 in the Big Book
If you and your husband find a solution for the pressing problem of drink you are, of course, going to be very happy.


23.
... going to bed, so I stepped into ...   BB p.41, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 41 in the Big Book
When I returned to the hotel it struck me a highball would be fine before going to bed, so I stepped into the bar and had one.


24.
... going to believe they are in that ...   BB p.31, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 31 in the Big Book
Despite all we can say, many who are real alcoholics are not going to believe they are in that class.


25.
... going to describe.   BB p.19, There Is A Solution   Go to page 19 in the Big Book
All of us spend much of our spare time in the sort of effort which we are going to describe.


26.
... going to disappear over night.   BB p.100, Working With Others   Go to page 100 in the Big Book
You should point out that his defects of character are not going to disappear over night.


27.
... going to do about a thing like ...   BB p.81, Into Action   Go to page 81 in the Big Book
In fairness we must say that she may understand, but what are we going to do about a thing like that?

28.
... going to function, it has to be ...   12&12 p.167, Tradition Eight
If a club is going to function, it has to be habitable and hospitable.


29.
... going to get drunk?   BB p.70, How It Works   Go to page 70 in the Big Book
Does this mean we are going to get drunk?


30.
... going to health farms and sanitariums, accepting ...   BB p.31, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 31 in the Big Book
Here are some of the methods we have tried: Drinking beer only, limiting the number of drinks, never drinking alone, never drinking in the morning, drinking only at home, never having it in the house, never drinking during business hours, drinking only at parties, switching from scotch to brandy, drinking only natural wines, agreeing to resign if ever drunk on the job, taking a trip, not taking a trip, swearing off forever (with and without a solemn oath), taking more physical exercise, reading inspirational books, going to health farms and sanitariums, accepting voluntary commitment to asylums -- we could increase the list ad infinitum.

31.
... going to hurry any.   12&12 p.69, Step Six
Sure, I'll head toward perfection, but I'm certainly not going to hurry any.


32.
... going to it for years.   BB p.36, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 36 in the Big Book
I also had the notion that I might find a customer for a car at this place, which was familiar for I had been going to it for years.


33.
... going to know a new freedom and ...   BB p.83, Into Action   Go to page 83 in the Big Book
We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness.

34.
... going to meddle with our personal independence ...   12&12 p.37, Step Three
Nobody is going to meddle with our personal independence in such matters.


35.
... going to meet these new friends in ...   BB p.152, A Vision For You   Go to page 152 in the Big Book
You are going to meet these new friends in your own community.

36.
... going to need them."   12&12 p.164, Tradition Seven
We're going to need them."

37.
... going to pay its bills, that's really ...   12&12 p.160, Tradition Seven
When a society composed entirely of alcoholics says it's going to pay its bills, that's really news.

38.
... going to perform those services for which ...   12&12 p.191, Tradition Eight (Long)
But we may employ alcoholics where they are going to perform those services for which we might otherwise have to engage nonalcoholics.


39.
... going to perform those services for which ...   BB p.564(566), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
But we may employ alcoholics where they are going to perform those services for which we might otherwise have to engage nonalcoholics.


40.
... going to play an effective part in ...   BB p.131, The Family Afterward   Go to page 131 in the Big Book
At the very beginning, the couple ought to frankly face the fact that each will have to yield here and there if the family is going to play an effective part in the new life.

41.
... going to sleep, many of us draw ...   12&12 p.93, Step Ten
When evening comes, perhaps just before going to sleep, many of us draw up a balance sheet for the day.


42.
... going to some of them on a ...   BB p.76, Into Action   Go to page 76 in the Big Book
As we look over the list of business acquaintances and friends we have hurt, we may feel diffident about going to some of them on a spiritual basis.


43.
... going to spoil your relations with your ...   BB p.111, To Wives   Go to page 111 in the Big Book
Be determined that your husband's drinking is not going to spoil your relations with your children or your friends.


44.
... going to talk about God.   BB p.45, We Agnostics   Go to page 45 in the Big Book
And it means, of course, that we are going to talk about God.

45.
Going to the extreme, he can become ...   12&12 p.43, Step Four
Going to the extreme, he can become a miser, or even a recluse who denies himself both family and friends.

46.
... going to the other extreme, we had ...   12&12 p.32, Step Two
Or, going to the other extreme, we had wallowed in emotionalism and had mistaken it for true religious feeling.


47.
... going to this place?   BB p.101, Working With Others   Go to page 101 in the Big Book
Therefore, ask yourself on each occasion, "Have I any good social, business, or personal reason for going to this place?

48.
... going to try the program, the process ...   12&12 p.83, Step Nine
The moment we tell our families that we are really going to try the program, the process has begun.

49.
... going to turn me into a nonentity.   12&12 p.36, Step Three
Nothing is going to turn me into a nonentity.


50.
... going to wonder how you can add ...   BB p.93, Working With Others   Go to page 93 in the Big Book
In that case he is going to wonder how you can add anything to what he already knows.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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